My husband of 3yrs this time around, 2 years the time before, is in the process of filing for a divorce. The first time I divorced him because of abuse….He moved to another state and within a year we remarried. He promised to move back to the state where I reside. He kept moving the date, it is now three years into it and he never came home. He came to visit me twice a year for about a week. About a year and a half into the marriage he called me up to tell me that he would not be moving because he did not want to quit his good paying job. I was crushed and felt very decieved b/cause we married with the commitment he would move. You are probably wondering why I did not move..Well I had a child in High School, and a 91 year old mother w/breast cancer, and altzymers. This April he gave me noticed that if I did not move to be w/him by a specific date this year he would file for a divorce. He came to make his usual visits just this May and I discovered he has been chatting w/woman on the internet…and is currently dating one. Tells me he got too lonely and needs someone now…and would rather start w/someone new. This is not the first emotional affair he has engaged in within the 3yrs…But this is the only one (so he says) that he is actually dating. I am losing my mind…my heart hurts…I am not eating very much maybe a kids meal a day…I feel violated, betrayed, and so many questions. I love my husband very much…and my mind races w/thoughts about what “they” are doing…I pray daily, I read my Bible, and also reading several christian self help books. Please pray for me….I dont want to sign the divorce papers, not sure if God would hold it against me as agreeing. I am messing up at work, and crying alot the pain is more than I can take…..
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Hi Josie, I just found this site it’s awsome and I was just going through the stories and prayer request and I was touched by yours it brought tears to my eyes. I am separated from my husband and he is already talking to another girl, and he hasen’t even filed the divorce papers yet. So I feel your pain . I just want you to know that I will keep you in my prayers and if you want we could team up in prayer.
God Bless Brenda
Hi Brenda, thanks for your post. I hope things are better for you. My divorce is now final, and I am still going thru what seems like an emotinal roller coaster. I will keep you in my prayers. Let me know how we can team up in prayer. God Bless