My 14 year old son has not spoken to me in 9 months because he blames me for the divorce and he hacked into my e mails and saw things that he should not have about his father and I. I am trying to go through the court to make him see me and even though I could call the police and force him to see me I don’t want to do that to him. I just ask for prayers for Tommy that he will realize that as horrible as divorce can be, I didn’t leave him and I didn’t stop loving him. This is the most difficult time that I have ever gone through and although I have been given a great deal of advice, none of it has gotten Tommy to come back to me. Please pray for us. Thank you. AMY
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Amy, my son was 16 when we got divorced and somehow chose to be angry with me. Some six years later, he is beginning to understand and is more available and we talk a lot compared to before. It may just take time foir you and yours and hopefully, not as much!
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I have a 15 year old son and he does not come see me. His father and I divorced when he was a baby. He was awarded custody and got involved with another woman who hated me and they both made sure I was left out of the picture. I even went nearly 3 years without seeing him. It is very hard knowing how they feel and when the other parent makes sure they hate you. I I have struggled for years not having a relationship with him but I still love him and pray that one day he will realize I am not the ogre his father has painted me out to be. No one wins in a divorce. I pray that God will bring us together some day.