http://www.walkingthechristianlife.com/2010/02/19/prayer-request-from-tamra/ Where there is HOPE there is the ability to move forward Wed, 08 Sep 2010 22:00:49 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 http://www.walkingthechristianlife.com/2010/02/19/prayer-request-from-tamra/comment-page-1/#comment-1542 Jean Tue, 02 Mar 2010 15:02:57 +0000 http://www.walkingthechristianlife.com/divorce-recovery-blog/?p=630#comment-1542 Tamra, My heart aches as I read your request. It is so similiar to what I am going through and I know the pain and betrayal you feel. I have found that it helps me to turn my thoughts over to God and not allow myself to dwell on all the horrible things my husband said to me and the blame he placed on me for HIS decisions! God will get you through this, but you must take captive your thoughts and not let the emotional abuse of your husband reign in them! I will pray for you my dear friend. Divorce is horrible! God bless you and heal your wounded heart! "The Lord is close to the broken hearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." Ps. 34:18 Check out the book "Divorce Care- hope, help and healing during and after your divorce" It is a daily devotional and it is awesome! I think it is available on Amazon.com Blessings, Jean Tamra, My heart aches as I read your request. It is so similiar to what I am going through and I know the pain and betrayal you feel. I have found that it helps me to turn my thoughts over to God and not allow myself to dwell on all the horrible things my husband said to me and the blame he placed on me for HIS decisions! God will get you through this, but you must take captive your thoughts and not let the emotional abuse of your husband reign in them! I will pray for you my dear friend. Divorce is horrible! God bless you and heal your wounded heart! “The Lord is close to the broken hearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” Ps. 34:18 Check out the book “Divorce Care- hope, help and healing during and after your divorce” It is a daily devotional and it is awesome! I think it is available on Amazon.com
Blessings, Jean

]]> http://www.walkingthechristianlife.com/2010/02/19/prayer-request-from-tamra/comment-page-1/#comment-1535 Donna Fri, 26 Feb 2010 17:02:13 +0000 http://www.walkingthechristianlife.com/divorce-recovery-blog/?p=630#comment-1535 Please remember that God gave your husband free will and you are not responsible for his actions, although you can continue to pray for him. All of your beliefs and dreams about marriage are still there, perhaps buried inside you for now. God knows the longing of your heart and has great plans for you, probably marriage to a wonderful man who will love you in a proper way. He wants a God-centered marriage for you, something it doesn't sound like you had. I'm so sorry you were betrayed, just as Jesus was betrayed. You didn't deserve that and God weeps for you. You are not the one who gave up on your marriage and you musn't give up on your future, either. And...good luck with the job search. I will pray for you! Please remember that God gave your husband free will and you are not responsible for his actions, although you can continue to pray for him. All of your beliefs and dreams about marriage are still there, perhaps buried inside you for now. God knows the longing of your heart and has great plans for you, probably marriage to a wonderful man who will love you in a proper way. He wants a God-centered marriage for you, something it doesn’t sound like you had. I’m so sorry you were betrayed, just as Jesus was betrayed. You didn’t deserve that and God weeps for you. You are not the one who gave up on your marriage and you musn’t give up on your future, either. And…good luck with the job search. I will pray for you!

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