Hello, I have just recently joined the following of this website and am both happy and saddened at the same time. Happy for the fact that there are others out there in the same boat that I am, and I can find comfort during this horrible time in my life. Saddened for the fact that there are others out there like myself, going through or have gone through a divorce. My story, short version, is: I’m 39, been married for 15 yrs, will be 16 in sept. I have 2 wonderful kids, 6 and 8 yrs old, boy and girl. And I’ve been living the fairy tale married life, or so I thought, until my wife informed me that she was unhappy and has been for sometime and is going to be seeking a divorce. No prior warning at all!!! Blind sided by a semi-truck…Talk about being at a place that only God can pick you up from, that’s where I’m at…I’ve always thought that both, her and myself were strong christians and tried to make decisions according to the conviction of the Holy spirit, but my wife, has apparently through the years, fallen away from God and now is making decisions based off of her own selfish desires, with no reguard to the kids and how this is going to affect them. Let alone myself. She says that she just doesn’t feel the same about me as she once did and that she just don’t love me like she should. And she doesn’t believe that God can ever change that and therefore is going to be seeking a divorce….This has changed my life…she hasn’t filed yet but in a short time since this has surfaced, God has taken me from ROCK bottom and totally confused to totally 100 % confindent that he has a plan for us and that he will bring it to pass no matter what! My prayer request is that you all will pray that my wife will find her way back to the Lord and heed his call, yeild to his will, and repent, because I know if she does she will allow him to heal her heart and bring her back to me and the kids….God hates divorce and therefore I know that this divorce is not his will, it’s satans and hers!!!
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Michael, you are so right. The enemy is trying to destroy what God has done. I pray that He would bind satan and open up your wife’s eyes to the love and grace of God. To expose the lies of the enemy!