submitted by Kay
Jason-your wife committed adultry so God’s word gives you permission to leave the marriage. But my husband hasn’t broken a commandment. He is just unaffectionate, controlling( I have to ask for a check, or money to go to doctor, get groceries, etc and he usually gets mad and denies me-like he wishes I didn’t exist)AND HE IS GRUMPY! Biblically, I can’t find a verse that justifies divorcing him. Am I supposed to be miserable for now and know that I will be happy for eternity because I followed God’s word? Staying in a painful marriage is destroying my health and my self-esteem-but is it selfish to think more about myself than to keep trusting in God to change him?