Submitted by Alyssa
I am dating a separated man. He didn’t disclose in the beginning that he was still married and felt that it was okay since his wife had left, lived with another man and was pregnant with that man’s baby. The problem is I fell pretty hard for him before finding all this out. We’ve been together a year and a half and he’s still not divorced due to child/money issus — all of which I understand — and now I love him. Am I setting us up for divorce? Am I ruining his healing and dealing with his feelings because I’m there? I know he has so much to think about and he and I have our own issues that I feel guilty even bringing up knowing he’s still dealing with losing his family. But I don’t want to lose him and think we can get through it if we make it past his divorce. Am I making a huge mistake for my future? I want to marry him and see a happy life together but every thing I read says dating him is wrong. Any advice?