Submitted by Richard
After 24 years of marriage, my Christian wife moved out and has filed for divorce. She had an affair last year that seems to have changed her. We have never been drinkers or are party people, now that we are separated, she is out drinking, going to bars and seeing other men. As a Christian man, I belive divorce is wrong. I believe God could heal our relationship, that has been my prayer for a year now. She shows no signs of changing, says God will forgive her for divorce. We have three children in college and I worry about the affects this will have on them. My question is, at what point do I give up and get on with my life? It’s so hard to do when I know God could heal our marriage and that is what would be best for my children. Need help knowing what to do next. I love my wife, thought we had a good marriage, she was my best friend, we have had difficult times financially and she is chasing men with money. Seems she wants more of what this world has to offer, she denies that. Says, she just doesnt love me anymore. Knows God could heal our marriage but doesn’t want Him to. Just keeps saying, God will forgive me, don’t judge me. Any advice would be appreciatted.