Submitted by Jay
Just have a quick question. Its regarding infidelity in a marriage. If your spouse decides to separate from you, and then say after 4 months of leaving you and dating someone else, you find out that she has been sleeping with him, would that be considered infidelity? According to my wife, since she left me, we weren’t together and therefore, having intimacy with her boyfriend was okay. To me, this seems to be a form of justification for what she did. I would like to know any opinions on this. I did want to work on my marriage, but after hearing this, and all the lies of denying it, i think the straw finally broke the camels back. For a while now, i’ve been praying to God to guide me to what I need to do. Its crazy how we get our answers, never the way we expect. Anyways, your thoughts on what i described, if that would be considered infidelity. Thank you and God Bless.