Is there anyone who likes saying sorry? Saying sorry is as dreaded as going to the dentist and is usually avoided or put off as long as possible, especially if the consequences aren’t fully comprehended. When we say, we’re sorry we are admitting that we made a mistake, that we hurt someone we care about and we aren’t as perfect as once thought. Our ego takes a hit when we have to say we’re sorry and even worse if we bring up past mistakes we run the risk of further confrontation and reminders of our lack of perfection.
Even though offering an apology can be a humbling experience it doesn’t have to be a humiliating one, in fact, it can heal humiliation, guilt and lead to forgiveness. A genuine apology is one of the most sought-after things in relationships, families and even among co-workers. They are often avoided because people are either too prideful or too ashamed to apologize. Saying sorry, especially among men, is considered to be a sign of weakness and lack of control when in fact being able to say those two little words and meaning them illustrates great strength and honesty.
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