Questions & Answers

questions and answersThere are always questions that beg for answers after divorce. Here you will find questions submitted by visitors with answers from myself and others. Remember, I am not a professional counselor or pastor; I answer the best I can based on my experience and beliefs. Click here if you would like to submit a question of your own.

Blended Families

Submitted by Nadia
I’m married to a wonderful man, which was divored before we met. The daughter from this marriage was by the court givin to my husband, it’s not easy for me and I do believe not with her as well. When I met my husband the ex-wife told [...]

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Divorce Scriptures

Submitted by Kimberley
I have been married for 18 years. I have been seperated for over 2 years. My husband was abusive to me and my 3 children. He continues to exhibit the same behaviors and has now began to put me in financial bondage from an accident. Are there [...]

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Help With Depression

Submitted by June
How do you support a love ones depression? What do you do? What do you say?

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Prayer Request from Ron

My wife divorced me in November 2010 because she said she fell out love with me. She told me a few days later that she had been unfaithful to me. I have been very lonely at home since she left. I did forgive her after she told me about [...]

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Getting Rid of the Guilt

Submitted by Penny
My divorce was granted by the judge yesterday. It’s all so surreal. My husband has Personality Disorder/Bi-Polar issues and has for his whole life, but was finally diagnosed after having been arrested for violating the restraining order and trying to run a policeman over.
I left back [...]

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Should I Start a New Relationship

Submitted by Flip
I am currently involved in a very bad divorce case.
Separated for just over a year, gone through the worst and have an awesome relationship with God.
If I can choose, I will never have a relationship with another woman again.
All of a sudden, I think I have fallen [...]

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I Feel Like a Failure

Submitted by Lea
I am writing because I am notsure what to read. I was reading your blog, still not sure. I was married 29yrs. Meet at 14 teen, talked in to marriage at almost 16. Being shy of 16 they wouldn’t marry us. So by the time I was [...]

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Hard to Stay Married

Submitted by Capella
I stumbled upon this website as I was looking for bible verses dealing with greif and I have been reading all the articles which I find very good and enlightening. But my question is, what about us who have not yet gone through a divorce, but it [...]

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I am Confused!

Submitted by Martha
Iam a christian and got divorce in january this year. I found out my husband is gay(bisexual) about 4 years ago. It has bn a tough ride . Been to many prayer sessions but he never accepted something is wrong. Unrtil I decided I had enoigh and [...]

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Dating Question

Submitted by Lisa
My husband of 19 years left almost 5 years ago. Since that time I’ve focused on raising our 4 children, who are all teens now. I’ve done it alone, as their dad moved to another state with his new family and hasn’t seen the kids in 3 [...]

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Where to Attend Church

Submitted by Nisa
I am engaged to a wonderful man who is a christian and is very active at his church. When we first met, I was honest with him that I didnt attend church on a regular basis. The church he attends three times a week happens to be [...]

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Getting Over Taking Care of Others

Submitted by Penny
I am currently in the middle of a divorce. My husband, due to his angry outbursts, is in jail. I’m not sure how long he’ll be there. He’s been verbally/emotionally abusive on and off for years.
How do I get past feeling its my responsibility to see [...]

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Mean People Suck

Submitted by Peggy
I have joined two different churches since moving to this area, which I have lived in for the past 20+ years, and both have ignored my attempts to join various volunteer groups within the congregations.
I met with the Pastor of one who just didn’t have any answers [...]

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How do you deal with the fear of being hurt again?

Submitted by Jacques
How do you deal with the fear of being hurt again?

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Spouse Concealing Child’s Location

Submitted by Rodney
How does one handle a spouse who has abducted the 3 smallest (of 6) children and is concealing her whereabouts and those of the children and is refusing to communicate. I am going through all of the legal motions (pro per) however I am concerned about the [...]

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Spouse Making Child Custody Difficult

Submitted by James
2 yrs after my divorce it has turned ugly. We share 50/50 with our kids. I have remarried and since that time 2 of the 17 and 15 live with me. The other 2 are week to week. My ex now has moved in with a boy [...]

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Trying to Save My Marriage

Submitted by JD
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i am married 29 years to a christian man – he told me our marriage is over in July. He has left 4x. We have two wonderful adult children. I smothered him – and he said i made a lot of mistakes. (no adultery…) I just want [...]

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Valid Reason to Divorce

Sumbitted by Gareth
when i got married i knew very little about what it meant to get married and because i grew up in a household where my parents divorced i thought it was bad but not the end of the world you know….
i married my wife for reasons other [...]

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What if Spouse is Pregnant from Affair

Submitted by Dave
I found out 3 months ago that my wife was having an affair. We have stayed together, sought counseling, involved ministers and family. I have done my best to show love and grace, all the while hoping for repentance on her part, and reconciliation between us. She [...]

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How Do I Cope

Submitted by Loredana
My husband and I married in the church full of faith and love, been together 16 years, married 10. 2 years ago he met someone and began a relationship with her. He says that he tried to tell me that things needed to get better and tried [...]

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Raising Children with Christian Values

Submitted by Mark
How do I raise a daughter, who see’s her mother in an adulteries relationship, with Christian values? How do I not speak ill of her mother’s actions when the child speaks of them in an ill way? Can I still love my ex and let my daughter [...]

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