Grief after divorce can be an on-going process. Everyone’s grief is different, and people deal with it in their way and in their own time. The feelings of intense grief should lessen over time; ignoring, suppressing or rushing it won’t make your grief go away. You simply need to deal with it and let it run its course.
I for one don’t like pain, especially emotional pain. It can linger on and after you think you have it licked it creeps back up from what seems like out of nowhere. I for one have prayed for a miracle cure to remove all emotional pain during my divorce. I would have given anything to not feel ANYTHING.
Logically, I knew there was no quick fix. Emotionally, I begged and hoped for one. I know that God can instantly heal all wounds, even emotional ones, however, He typically doesn’t do that, at least I have not heard anyone tell me that after divorce God immediately took away their pain.
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